Seek to understand, listen fully
Understanding is different from agreeing
Reflect statements back to be sure you understand (Communication 101)
Avoid defensiveness
Use a kind voice
State your case in clear terms
Talk about issues in a constructive manner
Benefits of Therapy
Exercise 15 minutes of intentional exercise a day at least
Eating healthy, non-inflammatory foods, eating on a regular schedule
Develop a positive attitude, instead of ruminating on negative things, practice staying in the present, (mindfulness), gratitude, and focusing on the positive
Get adequate sleep, good sleep hygiene is a must.
Smile more, moving muscles to smile changes mood
Develop friends and maintain those friendships
Connect with friends and family
Talk problems or ideas over with someone: saying things out loud in a way that makes sense to someone else clarifies thoughts in our own mind
Laugh! Laughter changes moods and builds resiliency